Red-Pilled by the Algorithm

The Radicalization of Boys and Young Men in Today’s Age

Siara Shay Romero

Student, New York University

For decades, social media platforms have promised connection, self-expression, and community. But for many boys and young men, companies’ algorithm-driven feeds have instead become a vehicle of isolation, steering vulnerable users toward misogynistic “red-pill” content that reframes loneliness as grievance and masculinity as dominance.

In the aftermath of COVID-19, as adolescent boys have turned increasingly to digital spaces in search of belonging, algorithmic feedback loops have intensified emotional insecurity and perpetuated gender resentment. For many, what often begins as a search for identity or understanding is transformed into participation in online communities that weaponize vulnerability and normalize hostility toward women.

If we fail to disrupt this cycle, we risk allowing algorithms to continue radicalizing the youth in silence, and further inflicting harm amongst members of our communities.

As of March 2022, over 138 million people in the United States actively use TikTok, with an estimated 32.5 percent of them between the ages of 10 and 19 (see Figure 1).1Daniele Albertazzi and Donatella Bonansinga, “Beyond Anger: The Populist Radical Right on TikTok,” Journal of Contemporary European Studies 32, no. 3 (2023): 674. Platforms like TikTok use algorithms to create specially personalized content feeds, tailoring users’ online experiences based on their engagement patterns. These algorithms have thrust male users into feedback loops that promote “red-pilled” content—a term used to describe misogynistic and anti-feminist ideologies that have gained traction in recent years. In the wake of COVID-19, as young people turned more towards digital spaces, boys and young men have become increasingly vulnerable to online radicalization. This algorithm-driven exposure not only warps their self-perception but also poses a growing threat to gender relations in today’s social and political climate.

Algorithms are not a new concept; they’ve long shaped user experiences on platforms like YouTube and Facebook.2Donghee Shin and Kulsawasd Jitkajornwanich, “How Algorithms Promote Self-Radicalization: Audit of TikTok’s Algorithm Using a Reverse Engineering Method,” Social Science Computer Review 42, no. 4 (July 2024). These systems track interactions such as likes, comments, and searches to curate specialized content that keeps users engaged. This personalization creates “filter bubbles,”3Shin and Jitkajornwanich, How Algorithms Promote Self-Radicalization, 1021. described as “implicit mechanisms of predetermined personalization, where personalized algorithms curate a user’s social media consumption; the content that a user sees is filtered through an artificial (AI)-driven algorithm that reinforces their existing beliefs and preferences, potentially excluding contrary or diverse views.”4Shin and Jitkajornwanich, How Algorithms Promote Self-Radicalization, 1021. For boys and young men, this self-reinforcing cycle can lead to online isolation, especially when their engagement centers on emotionally charged content.

While algorithms are doing what they’re designed to do, maximizing the time spent on a platform, the consequences can be dangerous. As one study explains, “this type of personalization could lead to harmful societal consequences such as the proliferation of extremism, filter bubbles, and rabbit holes.”5Shin and Jitkajornwanich, How Algorithms Promote Self-Radicalization, 1024. The algorithmic loop only grows stronger as it draws on past user data, ultimately creating a feedback loop, making users more dependent on recommendations from the algorithm. Compounded data is used to foster a pernicious loop, and synthesizes the users’ behavior.6Shin and Jitkajornwanich, How Algorithms Promote Self-Radicalization, 1024. For adolescent boys already struggling with loneliness and insecurity, especially in the aftermath of COVID-19, this can be especially harmful. Post-pandemic, many young men continue to grapple with emotional vulnerability and social isolation. As one study notes, these conditions have created “high levels of psychological  distress in young adults.”7Anna Levinsson et al., Conspiracy Theories, Psychological Distress, and Sympathy for Violent Radicalization in Young Adults during the COVID-19 Pandemic: A Cross-Sectional Study,” JD Journal for Deradicalization, no. 33 (Winter 2022/23): 230. In such a vulnerable state, the internet becomes their primary source of connection; however, instead of healing, algorithms often intensify alienation and push users toward increasingly extreme content. Environments rooted in disconnect and isolation foster dialogue that not only fails to address the issues surrounding men’s mental health and insecurities, but also perpetuates harmful ideologies. These conditions have contributed to the rise of communities online who claim to voice concerns on men’s struggles, but whose rhetoric borders on misogyny.

Within the past few decades, there has been a resurgence of men’s rights activism, now often referred to as the “manosphere.”8Matteo Botto and Lucas Gottzén, Swallowing and Spitting Out the Red Pill: Young Men, Vulnerability, and Radicalization Pathways in the Manosphere,” Journal of Gender Studies 33, no. 5 (September 2023): 596. Closely related to the ideologies of the manosphere is a growing digital subculture known as “red-pill” content. The term originates from the movie, “The Matrix,”9Lana Wachowski and Lilly Wachowski, dirs., The Matrix (CA: Warner Bros., 1999). in which the lead character is given the option to choose between taking a blue pill, and remaining in a comfortable, fictitious world, or taking the red pill and realizing that the reality he knows is holding him captive. Men have created the analogy to describe their own feelings of enslavement to a society that exacerbates their feelings of loneliness and insecurity, and where women are now dominating what once were exclusively male spaces, leading to “men who align with this ideology identify[ing] themselves as ‘redpillers’, whose main online community was created in 2012 on the social network Reddit.”10Botto and Gottzén, “Swallowing and Spitting Out the Red Pill,” 597. Much of what draws young men into the manosphere is not initial hatred, but rather a deep sense of craving the freedom to express their own vulnerability—a desire for community, identity, and meaning in a world that often feels alienating. The red-pill ideology appeals to young men experiencing emotional insecurity, especially those struggling with dating, masculinity, or social acceptance.1111Botto and Gottzén, “Swallowing and Spitting Out the Red Pill,” 596. This vulnerability is often rooted in perceived failures, such as romantic rejection, social exclusion, or economic struggles—which red-pill communities frame not as systemic issues or emotional challenges, but as evidence of an unjust world where “feminism has promoted women’s economic and reproductive interests too far so men are now discriminated against and have become the victims in society.”12Botto and Gottzén, “Swallowing and Spitting Out the Red Pill,” 598. The manosphere offers these men a shared sense of community where they can be emotionally open—but only to a certain extent. Instead of encouraging emotional growth or healing, this vulnerability is reinterpreted as justification for resentment and control over women. Rather than healing through unification, young men are instead taught to weaponize their pain, turning inward shame into outward hostility.

It has been noted that their ideological framework often builds upon claims rooted in evolution, claiming that, “evolution has formed gender relations so that men and women have developed divergent reproductive strategies and mating preferences,” and that a “sexual hierarchy” exists, causing women to be at the top of a hierarchy where they, “are ‘hypergamous’13Hypergamy refers to the belief that women are biologically inclined to seek sexual and romantic partners who are more attractive or have higher social status than themselves. See Shawn Van Valkenburgh, “Digesting the Red Pill: Masculinity and Neoliberalism in the Manosphere,” Men and Masculinities 24, no. 1 (January 2021): 90. and only desire the most attractive men or the ones with the highest social status.”14Botto and Gottzén, “Swallowing and Spitting Out the Red Pill,” 597. These beliefs further users’ feelings of marginalization, and encourages them to act in defiance of the system—embracing traits of aggression and asserting their dominance over women. Thus, the manosphere and red-pill content function not only as an ideology but as a sense of structure; offering belonging, purpose, and a path for transforming their unified vulnerability into anger.

The red-pill ideology promotes a worldview in which men are urged to view sexual and romantic relationships as competitions for dominance. Central to this belief system is the premise that women are inherently “hypergamous,” seeking only the most attractive or high-status “alpha males” for sex, while completely disregarding what are known as “beta males,” leaving only a few successful and the beta males to be dated only for the exploitation of their emotions and money.15Botto and Gottzén, “Swallowing and Spitting Out the Red Pill,” 597. By holding such views, men are encouraged not only to objectify women, but to also see them as entirely manipulative and transactional. In extreme cases, this ideology has become a gateway to gender-based violence, and it has been noted that as a result of their emasculation, Redpillers’ feel compelled to advocate for greater “sexual and physical violence against women since they do not give men what they are entitled to.”16Botto and Gottzén, “Swallowing and Spitting Out the Red Pill,” 598. As seen in the 2024 murders committed by Kyle Clifford, who, within 24 hours of murdering his ex-partner and her sister and mom, watched videos made by one of the ringleaders of the manosphere: Andrew Tate. Though the evidence was excluded at trial, the judge noted that Tate’s reputation and image as a “poster boy for misogynists” carried significant weight.17Lewis Adams, “Murders Show Online Misogyny Can Cause Real Harm,” BBC, March 7, 2025. This case illustrates how red-pill ideology can escalate from online resentment to real-world harm. Such horrific actions expose the dangers of an ideology that not only dehumanizes women but also valorizes violence as a means of reclaiming what is thought to be male dominance.

The rise of red-pill ideology is not merely a byproduct of online spaces, it is a direct consequence of algorithmic systems that prey on emotional vulnerability, particularly among boys and young men. In an era where social media platforms have the ability to shape identity and worldview, we cannot ignore how loneliness, insecurity, and social isolation are being weaponized by misogynistic movements. As boys seek community in online spaces, too many are pulled into cycles of resentment and rage that distort their understanding of masculinity and relationships with women. Combating this crisis will require more than just content moderation—it demands intentional efforts to foster healthier models of male identity, emotional expression, and community. If we fail to intervene now, we risk allowing algorithms and echo chambers to continue radicalizing a generation in silence.

About the author

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Siara Romero

Student, New York University

Siara is a Public Policy and Public Health student at New York University. She currently serves as Chief of Staff of SJ.II and is president of the SSDP chapter at NYU. She is also an associate writer for the NYU Journal of Medicine and Law.

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Botto, Matteo, and Lucas Gottzén. “Swallowing and Spitting Out the Red Pill: Young Men, Vulnerability, and Radicalization Pathways in the Manosphere.” Journal of Gender Studies 33, no. 5 (September 2023): 596–608. https://doi.org/10.1080/09589236.2023.2260318.

Levinsson, Anna, Rochelle L. Frounfelker, Diana Miconi, and Cécile Rousseau. “Conspiracy Theories, Psychological Distress, and Sympathy for Violent Radicalization in Young Adults during the COVID-19 Pandemic: A Cross-Sectional Study.” The JD Journal for Deradicalization, no. 33 (Winter 2022/23): 221–54. https://journals.sfu.ca/jd/index.php/jd/article/view/677.

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Wachowski, Lana, and Lilly Wachowski, directors. The Matrix. Warner Bros., 1999.

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